Leadership

I love my friends and teammates dearly, but some things just aren't clicking. Our coach would like us to be really good and reach our potential, but that just can't seem to happen. This year, our coach decided that making two of our three seniors captains would be a wise idea. I'm not saying it was or wasn't. However, I am saying that in the best interest of our team... They should not be captains (or at least one) a captain of a team is someone who does there work 100% if not 110%. They're the ones to lead but still have fun. Know responsibility but still unify. Work hard and still learn and teach.
     Our captains give maybe 20%. Goof around in practice (not that hysterical laughing is bad, it's not).... But not every day. Do 5 out of 20 burpees we're supposed to do. Or run 5 or 6 of 10 laps... And if you're late you have to run a lap for very minute you're late... However, that didn't happen today either. Discipline and responsibility are two MAJOR characteristics of a leader/captain of a team.
     God has blessed certain people with the gift of leadership. And it can be a beautiful thing. Someone who can uplift the team's spirits when down, but never lose sight of what needs to be accomplished. Sometimes seniority doesn't mean they are fit for a job. And I'm not bashing my friends/teammates, my coach, or anything like that. I'm just giving what I've seen and what I want to see.
For His Glory

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