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Commitment Shamitment

    One of the things I've realized more and more lately is just how much my generation has an aversion to commitment. I read things all the time that shout "commitment shamitment!" Rather than talking to someone about our concerns or voicing our opinions, if something is going wrong or could be better, we walk away. That thing or that person is not giving us what we want so instead of trying to figure out a solution, we just leave. We leave and look for something or someone better.    Granted, there are plenty of situations where something or someone is not the right fit and that's totally great but I think so much heartache, loneliness, and frustration could be saved if we would just power through and communicate sometimes rather than just talk all around it yet do nothing about it or just leave.    It's also a huge reason why dating/relationships seems to be so difficult for my generation. (again, sometimes not the right fit or situation) but we have t...